men are kinda like puppies. they work for rewards. you should consider the types of work that needs to be done daily/weekly, etc. Figure out which chores he seems to do fairly well. (trust me... he will never do it as good as you would have, so you gotta pick ones that he gets kinda close) Then you make a little "honey do list" for him. Keep in mind that typical guys will do bare minimum, so if its not on the list, he's not gonna do it. Then, you ask him in the sweetest way you know how to help you with a couple things. (again...trust me, if you complain, whine, b!tch, yell...he wont do it) When he asks what you want him to do, you tell him that you wrote a few down that you thought he was really good at. when he says yes, you smother him with hugs and kisses. More hugs and kisses whenever he does a chore. Always show appreciation even if he didnt do the greatest job. Usually, the more you give in love, kindness, support and appreciation...the more you get in return. So...to sum it up...ask sweetly, reward often. He will come around. Dont worry. Most puppies, when well trained, become wonderful companions.