Is it right for a man to go to a bar for drinks every week when he has a wife and 5 month old baby girl home?

smitty

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maybe next week it's your turn to go out shopping all day while he watches the baby. my wife is gone all the time it's great bonding time for me and my kids. I think it's his turn
 

tessie35

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Sounds like to me your husband is not ready for marriage and a family. You really would think he was cause he's 43 yrs old. I don't think you are being selfish and you really need to speak on it.
 

benrumson

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No it's not right, he should have his behind home with you. Yes he might need a little me time but what about you. Being a wife and a mother is no easy job either and i am sure you would like to have a little me time also.
 

Rebecca V

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This is definitely a touchy subject, because there are two sides to every story but... I would tell him how you're feeling, tell him everything, how hurt you are that he's not spending enough time with the two of you, how you're raising the baby almost alone! When my babies were teething it was so hard on me, I was exhausted because nothing seemed to put them in better moods. They were constantly crying etc. I think the father should be there to help with that kind of thing. She's his daughter too!
 
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