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Thread: If you were given this ultimatum, what would you do?

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    If you were given this ultimatum, what would you do?

    Tell him to get his a.ss to the sink and get washing.

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    If you were given this ultimatum, what would you do?

    Your spouse of 6 years tells you "You are going to clean this house today. If the kitchen isn't spotless when I get home, I am throwing everything away."Assume that your house is clean but there are always dishes to be done- I don't mean stacked to the ceiling, I mean maybe at any given time there are five or six to be done. Assume you are going to school and caring for a family of seven, including the aforementioned spouse, yourself, two kids of his from a previous marriage, and three of your own. Assume the littlest is teething and needs held almost nonstop, and that you can never finish everything within a day. Do you: follow the ultimatum? Ignore the ultimatum; he can throw away what he please? Leave? Something else entirely?

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    If you were given this ultimatum, what would you do?

    Can you leave?! Your spouse sounds like he's turned into a control freak and/or dictator. If the house bothers him so much maybe he should pitch in and help, or else find someone else to take care of his kids. What a guy! It makes one wonder how he treats you otherwise.

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    If you were given this ultimatum, what would you do?

    I would leave for a couple of days and make HIM wear your shoes for a bit.He'll change his tune real quick.or...Tell him that you will buy something more expensive to replace anything that he throws away.

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    If you were given this ultimatum, what would you do?

    The asshole referred to as 'dad' here always says he is going to throw shit away if it's not picked up. Nothing has been done, if he is anything like the asshole here leave his ass.

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    If you were given this ultimatum, what would you do?

    from my experience, anytime one of my ex's gave me an ultimatum, to me that shows a sign a no respect. i don't mind helping out around the house but don't treat me like a kid and tell me i better. they will lose everytime. then again maybe that is why i am single, but stand up for yourself and tell them to ask nicely

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    If you were given this ultimatum, what would you do?

    what your spouse cant wash dishes?tell him fine, no sex until he learns to wash dishes.people who give ultimatims are a waste of time.divorce him and take him to the cleaners. he can raise his own kids by himself.during various times in my life i have resulted to paper plates and disposable silverware and glasses. it is soo much easier.

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    If you were given this ultimatum, what would you do?

    Tell him to go fly a kite you are the Queen of the house and you will do it whenever you want if he wants it done sooner do it himself

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    If you were given this ultimatum, what would you do?

    If it is my wife, I will try to clean it because I am a slob who really need some order.

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    If you were given this ultimatum, what would you do?

    Shoot, I'd be like, "go ahead, throw s**t away, dumba**"you have enough on your plate, the last thing you need is some a$$hole coming at you like he's your daddy..you've got one of those already..what you need is someone who can relate to you and understand your position at home..it's hard to maintaine a house along with children and pleasing the afore-mentioned spouse..you can't make everyone happy..my suggestion to you is to tell him that he needs to shut his mouth, we are not living in the stone age anymore and that he needs to help you when it comes to dealing with the things that need to be delt with in the house..and if he doesn't agree, than i suggest you either kick his ass out or leave - assuming it's possible...Good Luck

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