My fiance has two jobs at the moment to help pay for his child support to his ex wife. He works close to 90 hours a week. I work part time, and I hate it, but right now it's the only job in this small town that I can get that will work around our schedule, I have to take him to work, pick him up from work, take him to his second job and pick him up from there when he is done with that job. Anyway, we have a 10 month old daughter who is teething. So for the past 3 nights she has been super fussy and we're trying to help her feel better, but to no avail. I told my fiance that in all the 10 months our daughter has been alive, I have only asked him to get up in the middle of the night probably 5 or 6 times. And when I do he gripes the entire time. But now that he has this second job, he doesn't feel that he needs to help me out with her at night at all! She does really well usually, except these past couple of days, I mentioned that it would be nice for him to offer a little help, and he..blew up at me saying he works too F'ing much to have to deal with this crap, and I only work part time it shouldn't be a big deal if I loose sleep and he went on and on about it. I was furious, because for one, I have Bronchitis, for two, I NEVER ask him for his help at night, it's really rare that I do. Then last night he got up to hel pme look for the Oregel for the babys gums, and I told him thanks for his help, and told him to go back to bed, then he yelled at me again saying I could make up my mind, He's like do you want to me stay up and help or not!? I told him I just needed his help, he helped or tried to, and now he could go back to bed. By the end of this fight at 2:00 in the morning, I wound up telling him he could get out of the F'ing house, he said if he did he'd never come back. I'm still so upset at how he had handled the situation, especially since we had a similar discussion the previous day about when our daughter is so fussy that he should help out a little bit.My question is, how do I get over my anger? And second, why do you think he acted like that? He acts like taking care of a baby isn't a full time job as it is. Anytime he watches her and I'm at work, I come home to hear him complain about how difficult she was. What should I do about him. This whole situation is angering me so much!