need some advice on making my wife feel better after a bad day?

Big Daddy R

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My daughter has been teething today and been a realy bad mood.She has cired almost nonstop. This would not normally be that big of an issue because we could tag team her or if it were a work day i would take care of her when i came home. However i am recovring from a minor procedure and she has had to take care of me all day also and i can't lift my daughter up or do to much with her. I am feeling a little better so i am making diner but what else can i do because she looks like she is about to cry
 

foxy m

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run your wife a nice hot bubble bath...send her in the tub alone with a book or magazine, get her pj's ready for her when she comes out and make her a nice cup of tea and allow her some alone time.tell her she is beautiful, and thank her for her help looking after you
 

College Girl

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taking care of a baby is SOO rough, she has to work and do all this stuff with noise in the house, go ahead and cook her dinner, and when two get a chance to sit down, just tell her youre lucky to have her that you know that everything has been downhill and that shes a good wife.
 

mistique1818

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There is something I used for my son called Benzodent for denture wearers.It numbs the gumms a lot longer than other ointments...Go get some, put the baby to bed and then send your wife to a hot bath and just let her relax...
 

Michel

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After you get your daughter down to bed for the night draw your wife a bubble bath, put some candles in the bathroom and put on some relaxing music. Let her know you would do more for her if you could and maybe tomorrow ask your mom to come over for a couple hours and let your wife get out of the house for a walk or a little shopping. Way to go for realizing what a tough day your wife has had and trying to make it better.
 

Kenneth C

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first you have to put your ears on, don't talk just listen.. then get the baby oil and give her the best rub down shes ever had. Again don't talk just listen.. if she asks you why your doing this simply tell her cause I love you, that's it that's all and ask one question HOW WAS YOUR DAY, THEN SHUT UP AND LISTEN, don't try to make any suggestions cause most times a woman doesn't want us to solve the problem they just want you to listen.....
 

Maryjane

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Put baby to bed for the night and rub her gums with anbesol and when she cries rub them again if she is old enough let her chew on teething biscuits ot teething toast, tell your wife that you love her and tell her to go lie down for awhile and tell her that you have things under control, make her a romantic candle lit dinner and afterwards rub her feet, let her rest babies demand alot of attention and when they teeth its really rough they cry alot make sure you also give your daughter some baby tylenol for pain and give her some before bed, if she wakes up in the middle of the night give her it again as long as it is in the time frame.
 

Sia

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Draw her a bath so she can unwind after a day like that.... I would also see if you can get ANYONE you trust to take care of your daughter for a couple hours (i would mention she's teething prior) And use that time to do something she would enjoy.... you could also write her a mush letter about how much you love her for everything she does and everything she is to you and your daughter....it's always nice to feel appreciated.....
 

Colleen O

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Get someone in to take over the child care for a couple of hours, have her put her feet up and get some soothing lotion and give her a foot massage, most women I know (including myself) feel so much better after a foot massage. Then run her a hot bath and let her soak all the aches of the day away.
 
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