I can sooooooooooooo understand what you are going through.I to am homeschooling and have six children ages 6m-8y. some things i found helpfull are lockers or cubbys I prefer lockers because they close and I don't have to see the mess that can occur. I picked up a stacked set of 6 lockers at the state surplus for $20 new they cost way to much to even imagine. each child has their own decorated whith whatever stickers the aquire. in thes they keep shoes, coats, sweaters and other little things. another thing you can get at the surplus is a file cabnit, in this I keep all of the paper in hanging folders diffrent colors in each lined, unlined ect. now for toys my children sleep in bunk beds and each has a tote at the end of there bed for those, and anything else they don't want the other kids to get into. Laundry laundry laundry unless you have a great friend to help you with this you will always have laundry. I bought some small waist bins for each child. the ones who are older and able to do most of the work on there own, I help. when there bucket is full I instruct them as to how much soap they will need in the washer and when to add it. My washing machine has little stickers by the knobs so they know what load size, water temp, and cycle to use. My 2 oldest can now do this by themselves. I also have the stickers on my dryer for them. they wash, dry, fold, and put away there own laundry with lots of smiles! (mind you this did take a lot of patience and consistancy on my part to teach this to them. but you probably already know this as you do homeschool.)all school supplies are kept in a closet that I am fortunate to have. I have placed a small book shelf in the bottom for books and whatnot, also there are small tubs for glue,crayons, and the likes of that stuff. I hope this can be of some use to you as I am just now starting to get hold of my home again after the birth of my daughter in Feb.