First and foremost, etiquette rules state that you should NEVER under any circumstances mention GIFTS of any kind in an invitation.Your poem is great, but in lieu of asking for kitchen items, perhaps you could just request a family / favorite recipe (if you REALLY want them and it wasn't just a way to make your trolling for kitchen items more "acceptable".) BTW, when my brother in law and his wife got married they put stupid things on the registry which they could have purchased for the kitchen and it was just a big joke - a wooden spoon, spatulas, etc. Are you kidding me? If you can buy it yourself, don't ask for it as a gift.Most people will bring you a housewarming gift, but they are not required. It is not YOUR place to tell people what to give you. If your family and friends know you well, they will already know that you like white wine, or gardening or ________________.I found a few good websites that might help. Happy New Home!