friend's husband is cheating, says he wants a divorce. Seems he can't accept that with a baby priorities have to change. He's seeing a chicky he works with, and is apparently smoking some wacky tobacky (not confirmed, but suspected) She doesn't want to be the one to file for divorce, because then he could claim to be a victim... that she left him. Which he would do. Cuz darn, being pregnant, then having a premie baby, then the baby teething and working FT she's occasionally too tired for whoopee. Darn her. What do y'all think she should do?A few more details... He has refused to go to counseling, she has been going. It seems to really **** him off. He also is still denying the affair... but the behavior pattern is obvious. She hasn't denied him sex completely, he just hasn't seemed to understand that baby's needs needed to come first ... for both of them for awhile.