I am in Minnesota, and in this state, it is an entitlement to get help from social services if you have a severe mental illness. You can call up the social services of her county and explain the situation. They can help with the paperwork. Be persistent and ask specific questions, sometimes they are not forthcoming. Some states are better than others, minnesota is about average. Also, contact NAMI, the national association on mental illness, for local resources. I get help from social services, it is not everything, but they do help with paperwork and tell you what is available and will help you stay in a group home for a week or two if you are in crisis (versus a hospital).