This is definitely a touchy subject, because there are two sides to every story but... I would tell him how you're feeling, tell him everything, how hurt you are that he's not spending enough time with the two of you, how you're raising the baby almost alone! When my babies were teething it was so hard on me, I was exhausted because nothing seemed to put them in better moods. They were constantly crying etc. I think the father should be there to help with that kind of thing. She's his daughter too!