1. Get a dish pan and put all the dishes that are in the sink into the dish pan. 2. Clean out the sink3. If she's got a dishwasher, great. Load and run. If not, start the hot water running and rinse the gross stuff off the dishes. Fill the dishpan with the soaking dishes and lots of soap. Let soak. 4. take a small bowl and fill halfway with water, then add a couple tablespoons of vinegar. Stick in the microwave on high for a few minutes (long enough to boil)5. Clear off the stove of spoon rests, old pans, whatever. Spray down with all purpose cleaner, let soak. 6. Pick up all obvious trash and toss7. Ok, back to the dishes. Again, if there's a dishwasher, skip this step. Empty the dishrack so you'll have a place to put the clean ones. Wash as many as you can fit into the dishrack, refill dishpan with soap and hot water, soak the next batch.8. take a damp rag and hit that microwave. If the dried on stuff hasn't loosened enough, run it with the bowl of water for a couple more minutes.9. I usually take a baking dish filled half way with water when I tackle the stove. Clean off the stove top, anything that needs more soaking you can come back to10. Straighten the cabinets and toss all old stuff, all stale cereals, etc.11. Finish any remaining dishes12. Clear off any countertops, storing away appliances that do not get daily use. wipe it all down with all purpose spray13. sweep floors, then mop. any old spills can be soaked. See the theme?? let the products soak in as much as possible so that its less work for you guys.